You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing…. There is no greater challenge, and no greater prize. Be the type of husband your wife can’t help but brag about.
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But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.) 15. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards. This article seems to imply that a man can have a successful relationship by worshiping the woman.
After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had 1. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not. Take full accountability for your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. Women value strength in a man, clear thinking, forward mobility, good decisions, courage and powerful intimacy and financial security. HOWEVER, if you have a spouse who cannot or will not get past her own childhood issues and also has the notion that it is YOUR JOB to make her ” HAPPY ” then you will not be able be the husband you aspire to be no matter how hard you try.
It's perfectly normal to be attracted to others and to feel flattered by their attention -- but if you value your marriage, you pass on other potential mates, the same way as if you value your svelte figure, you pass on doughnuts. And I won't even go into the obesity epidemic sweeping the U. If you are in a marriage and in a supposed bond with your soulmate i dont understand how you would look at anyone whos attractive and has a nice personality as anything more then a friend regardless.. But I have never, ever hit on a woman since I have been married, and she knows I never will. I think there is more to most affairs than just temptation or boredom.
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Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion. That does NOT mean it is your job to MAKE her happy, only that you are to be conscious of reasonable needs of an intimate relationship.
Be willing to take her sexually, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING… It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. (From the Editor: We wish to thank Joachim Cabanyes for sending it to us for publication, Joachim Cabanyes is an honorary member of Authors-choice blog.) Everything I read was all about making all things about her.
I clearly remember when, after parents had gone to bed and the latest Teen Beat shared, we would huddle our sleeping bags together in a circle and have exhaustive discussions about boys.
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It is widely held that he commands respect from top politicians, businessmen an security authorities.
I have to force myself to stop interacting with them so often because it is just so great to be with them.
If I spend alot of time with them I start thinking about him alot. But I have never, ever hit on a woman since I have been married, and she knows I never will.