(He was followed by a string of unavailable, but wildly successful 40-year-olds.) And, later, there was the stereotypical jacked jock who was fun to look at, but couldn’t really hold a conversation.And the doe-eyed guy who I actually started to fall for—until I realized I needed to reserve my love for a man who could text me back on time.Boys are the ones who’re focussing any potential barriers that could get in the way and finding ways to use them as an excuse not to push themselves outside their comfort zone: “Hot women get approached all the time…” “I don’t have enough information…” “I’m not ready yet…” And if there’s nothing to blame, they create barriers: “It’s too early / close to lunch / dark / late / sunny…” “I don’t have enough time…” “There’s too many people…” Men are the ones that are finding ways to take action, despite the barriers in their way.You feel like you have it together and your list of dating and relationship must haves are in order, but after years of dating; your prince charming or perfect woman still eludes you. 4) You're pre-judging people you haven't even met yet.Even though some of these guys hurt me, each was critical to my journey.
Take it from a guy who has a pretty high sense of self-esteem and wanted a woman who was his equal and more: holding onto the idea of a person prevents you from seeing the real person inside. Beautiful, confident, intelligent women all over the world want real Men. They’re sick of little boys spend more time pretending to be impressive than actually doing anything impressive and who’re only as interested in having sex with them as far as they can use it to boost their reputation with a group of faceless guys in an online forum. Because most males don’t know the difference between a boy and a Man, let alone how to be a Man. ————– Boys are the ones telling you about how many chicks they’ve hooked up with or how much money they earn or how many trophies they won or how cool they are.They want strong, confident, internally validated, powerful Men who can take them on a journey without ever needing them to follow and who have the strength to live their life on their terms, regardless of how she responds. They brag and claim and yell as loud as they can so that everyone knows how important / successful / good they are can validate them accordingly.Maybe they're not at that six-figure mark yet, but are they ambitious, success-oriented and working hard toward crushing some goals.And let's be honest here; are you looking for an easy ride?